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My husband has not had any injuries but He has missed our sons first Halloween, our first wedding anniversary, our sons first Thanksgiving, all of these medical issues our son has been having, Our sons first Christmas and New Years. Itis rough, dont get me wrong. Christmas will be the roughest for me because we can celebrate our anniversary in June for all I care. He is mine and i am his and that was just a milestone. Did I wish he was home for the anniversary? You bet you ass. Surround yourself with positive people. Do things to keep yourself busy! I mean it. That is what makes my days go by so quick. My husband and I loved to go driving on back country roads looking at the landscape and just getting the feeling of freedom. Whenever I get bored or sad, I take our son and go driving on the same roads we went. It makes me feel better.
Keep a journal or write poetry to be able to express your feelings so that they dont et bottled up. If you dont want to do either than find some you trust and let them be your shoulder for this whole ordeal. I was taking things extremely rough when my son started having all these medical issues, I wasnt sleeping because of them and Nick being away, I got sick, and I hadnt let my feelings out. My dad was my rock and shoulder to cry on. We arent very close but that moment brought us closer. I just cried about my son and how Nick left at the worst possible time( He didnt but I felt that way). I just cried because I was being sooo strong and never let the feelings out. I cried for 3 hrs straight till there no more tears escaping. Later that evening mom and dad offered to watch Eli so I could go out and enjoy some ME time. I really needed it. Since Nick has been gone I have only left my son out of my sight for 5 times. They were all for ME time. Just let it out. If you need someone to talk to you can add me on facebook. Ill send you my link if you want. I hope I helped and didnt ramble on like I tend to.